Music Monday 2-9-2009

First, I noticed that embedded videos from Vimeo and sometimes Youtube are not showing up in various readers like Google Reader, or when my blog posts are cross posted to Facebook notes.  If you want to see the videos, you are going to have to click through to get to my real blog site.

Kelly and I got to see one of my all time favorites, Dar Williams at the Cat’s Cradle in Chapel Hill a couple of weeks ago.  I had never been to the Cat’s Cradle, even though it is pretty famous, and it was a great atmosphere for Dar — very small and intimate.   Jesse Harris opened, and then Dar had a “double bill” with Joshua Radin.  He played first and thought he was pretty good, but have yet to check out any of his music after the show even though we plan to.

Here is the song I most remember — Vegetable Car:

Now here are two videos we took of Dar with a little point and shoot camera:

Great show!

25 Random Things About Me

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This “meme” has taken over Facebook, and at first I said I would not do it.  After seeing it make the front page of USA Today’s life section this week, here I am doing it anyway.  But I won’t tag 25 other people — I’ll only tag people that have either tagged me or have already done the list.  This has to die at some point, right?  :-)I’ll post it to my blog and it will show up as a note on Facebook.

  1. I feel that I the most blessed man in the world!  I have an amazing, wonderful wife, great kids, and a job that I love.
  2. Kelly and I have been together since high school, when I was senior (age 17) and she was  a sophomore (age 15).   It has been an amazing time and I would not have done it any other way.  I am a better person because of her, and I am looking forward to the rest of our lives together.  It just keeps getting better and better!
  3. I love our two kids unconditionally and without question, though they are at times trying.  🙂   I am beginning to understand the phrase “kids raise their parents.”  It is incredible how different they are, even at ages 3 and 6 (and really how different they have been since they day they were born)!
  4. I am 70% optimist, 30% realist (or thereabouts depending on the situation).
  5. I love to be outdoors (and moving!) — hiking, trail running, orienteering, paddling, mountain biking, backpacking, camping, etc..  I see the beauty of the world as God’s natural revelation to us (Romans 1:19-20).
  6. I am sectional thru-hiking the Appalachian Trail.  At my current pace of 60-80 miles per year, it will only take 30 more years to finish.  I would love to do a true thru-hike (start to finish in one go, typically 4-6 months), but don’t see that happening anytime soon.
  7. I am a descriptive grammarian, not a prescriptive grammarian. That comes from my minor in linguistics.  (If that annoys you, see #9.)  I also minored in Japanese and have a B.S. in Computer Science from NC State and an M.S. in Telecommunications RIT.
  8. I have become a “reluctant leader.”  If you are too, read the book “Leading with a Limp” by Dan Allender.
  9. I like to annoy certain people, but always in a playful way.  If you chuckled at that, you probably know you are one of them.
  10. I love bamboo forests.
  11. I am CCIE #3897 (Cisco Certified Internetwork Engineer).  Ten years ago when I received the certification, there were less than 3000 of us, but now there are more than 20,000.
  12. I am more Libertarian than anything else.  I would like to see government reduced “to law enforcement, national defense, a system of courts to adjudicate interstate disputes, national infrastructure and the costs associated with running the legislative, judicial and executive branches of government” as stated by a famous Libertarian.
  13. I skied off the side of  a mountain when I was 8 or 9. I still think Donna (one of my 3 older sisters) forced me to go over, but it was PROBABLY an accident.  At least that is what she keeps saying.
  14. I shattered my wrist snowboarding when I was 27.  Colliers fracture (wrist slid on top of the ulna and radius, not quite breaking through the skin), ulna split in half, radius had several hair bone fractures going different directions.  It hurt.  Bad.  Really bad.  But Kelly says it could not have hurt as bad as child birth.
  15. I have battled knee problems for many years, and have tried just about everything — physical therapy, rolfing, chiropractic, electro stim, surgery.  I love to be active, and love to go long — the longer the better when running, mountain biking, etc.  So I have learned to manage the problem, and am lucky enough to still be quite active.  I may not do 2-3 day adventure races or run marathons anymore, and I miss it, but I can’t complain with what I am able to do.
  16. I love music, especially when the lyrics tell a story.  Preferably the type of story that you have to listen to many times to really understand all the nuances of a song.  That is why I like Leonard Cohen, Dar Williams, the Avett Brothers, Jon Foreman (Switchfoot), Bob Dylan, Eddie Vedder, and the like.   Beyond that, though, I love all kinds of music — rock, opera, rock opera, musicals, country, classical, blue grass, etc.  You can usually find at least one kind of each genre in my current play list.
  17. I do not like TV other than sports and the news.  I have not watched any TV shows regularly since Seinfeld.  Kelly and I did watch the 1st season of 24 on DVD, and may someday watch the 2nd season.  I have recently watched House a few times and like that too.  However, I do love movies.
  18. I like spreadsheets.  Seriously. I find them fun and powerful (as long as they are working they way I want them to 🙂 ).  I use them for business models, analyzing profit and loss, margin, tracking things such as workouts and workout goals, growth models, etc.
  19. I once held my breath for 2 minutes and 20 seconds.  These days I would probably struggle to reach 90 seconds.
  20. Recently, Theology has become a new “hobby.” I have always found philosophy and theology engrossing.
  21. My Life Verse is “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”  2 Timothy 4:7…  It has come at me several times in my life and in several diverse ways, so I it must be.  If you don’t have a life verse, you should find one.
  22. I have been fortunate to travel to:  Australia (twice), Japan (twice), England (3 times), Ireland, Hawaii (3 times), BVI (twice), Mexico, and many places in the US.  I lived in Turkey when I was very young, and don’t remember much, but we have pictures of me sitting in the ruins at Ephesus.  I still hope to see Iceland, Alaska, Germany, Italy, Switzerland, and many other places.
  23. I am strongly against people forwarding me emails, and I usually ask them to stop (nicely!).  If necessary, I will ask a second time.  If they still don’t stop, I take drastic measures to ensure I don’t get them anymore.  But it rarely gets to that — most people stop when asked nicely.  (It is ok to be discriminate when forwarding… I.e. if you take the time to read the email, and you really think that I (me, personally) would like to see it, and forward it to me (and perhaps two or there others), it is ok.  It is NOT ok to forward any email to everyone in your address book.)
  24. I have been blogging before it was called blogging.  Back then it was manually editing html pages to post my book “reviews” and travel photos.  Blogging makes it much simpler.  I love to write about the books I’ve read — not true reviews — but a quote or two, and perhaps a thought or concept.  And I come back to these posts as reference fairly often.  Maybe because I can’t remember what I’ve wanted to remember about the book. :-/
  25. I love to cook, but rarely find the time these days to do it.  I miss our cooking club days, when we would gather together with close friends for a night of gourmet cooking and great conversation.  Good times!

The Tale of Despereaux. Kate DiCamillo.

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After watching the movie, which I thought was great, I really wanted to read this.  Besides, two people told me I definitely need to read it after they saw my movie post.

I read it to Riley, and it was fun seeing how many differences between the movie and the book (of which there are plenty) Riley could see, and walking her through the ones she did not catch.

And it is not often that I say this, but I think the movie is better than the book as far as how the story plays out and the subtleties of the characters and of the character relationships.  I don’t want to put any spoilers here, so if you want to find out the differences, you can contact me directly, or just read the book and watch the movie to find out yourself.

I highly recommend both the movie and the book for parents and children.

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This is a very technical (i.e. textbook-like) book.  I have learned a fair amount of anatomy from my knee journey over the years, visiting doctors, physical therapists, structural integration and rolfers, etc., but this book still had a ton of information about the knee that I do not know — not to mention the rest of the body.   It is probably more geared to yoga instructors than practitioners, especially those yoga instructors that really get into anatomy and working with those who have injuries and/or are trying to prevent injuries.  However, for those that are working towards their own practice, or to take their own practice to the next level, it would also be beneficial.  The nuances of muscle usage within each pose that is discussed is very detailed, so that you see how the slightest overuse of a muscle in a given pose, or rotation here or there, can have dramatic effects on other muscles and alignments.

I read the 1st few chapters in detail, and then started working through the poses.  But I quickly discovered that you really need to work each pose while reading — or read, then do the pose, then read a little more, then do the pose again, etc.  So that is what I now plan to do for many of the poses in this book.

Music Monday January 26th 2009

So far I like Fiction Family, which is Jon Foreman (Switchfoot) and Sean Watkins (Nickel Creek).  Their sound is much more like Foreman’s solo work than Switchfoot, though I like Foreman’s solo work more than Fiction Family.

I also like My Morning Jacket, which is another band that made a lot of top albums last year with their Evil Urges CD… Here is a video from that album:

Leading With a Limp. Dan B. Allender.

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This is one of the best, most profound, non-fiction books I have ever read, and I plan to read it again in the future — maybe a year or so from now.  I also need to spend a little time leafing through it and looking at all my highlighted passages and dog-eared pages.  It is the type of book that needs time and reflection to let it really sink in.

I was going to say that I wish I had read this book two years ago, but after thinking about it, I have decided that sometimes, reflecting back with the new knowledge and ideas gained from a book may be more edifying than having gone through certain situations with the book’s knowledge in hand (head?).  Or, to put it another way, the book probably would not have meant much to me two years ago, whereas now it means a lot.

I have read a few business books, and a few leadership books, but never one written from the viewpoint of how a Christian should be called to lead.  Much of what is discussed in the book is leadership in terms of being a pastor, or being the leader of a religious school, but all of the principles can and should be applied to leadership in any situation.  And really, as Allender points out, all of us are leaders to some extent, whether it is with our children at home, or any time someone looks to us for guidance in any particular situation.

Just last week I had dinner with a friend who is an agnostic, but had read Wild at Heart (see my post on that here) based on my post about it, but he was able to put aside the religion in the book and still take something away.  I applaud him, or anyone, for being able to do that, especially when many of the main themes and examples are all religious based.  For any atheist or agnostic leader out there, if you can do that with this book, I would highly recommend it.

It is almost impossible to give a short synopsis of  this book, as there is a wealth of information beyond the basic premise that as a leader, it is best to acknowledge your short comings to those you lead (as well as yourself!).  But beyond that, there is tremendous wisdom in how to structure an organization, how to grow the people within the organization (in terms of character) and the organization itself, how to create the vision and mission of an organization, etc., etc., etc.  Highly highly recommended!

A few quotes that stood out by themselves, but these are just minor one-offs compared to larger sections, themes, and ideas presented throughout the book:

The person who merely puts up with life becomes a manager or a bureaucrat, not a leader.

Courage is almost a contradiction in terms.  It means a strong desire to live taking the form of a readiness to die.  [ This is Allender quoting G.K. Chesterson…]

We always predict the future by reading the present from a frame of reference that was established in the past.

… a dogmatic religious fundamentalist is more similar to a dogmatic atheist than he is to people who share his beliefs but are still seeking greater clarity in their beliefs.  The common link between contradictory ideologies is rigidity or the refusal to remain open to new beliefs and new ways of understanding old convictions.

… growth in character occurs to the degree that we accept being forgiven as a greater gift than life itself.  If the greatest gift is not what I see but how I am seen by the living God, then my gratitude knows no limits.

Music Monday January 19th 2009

I tried a couple “Music Monday” posts last year, but was not consistent at all.  I am not promising to have a music post every monday, but I will at least try to have a few more.

Today’s music is music that I missed last year — music that showed up on a few “best of 2008” lists that I saw in late December — that I have really gotten into the past few weeks.

The first band is Fleet Foxes, which has a very unique, fresh sound in today’s music world.  Check out this claymation video for one of my favorite songs off their album:

The second band is Blitzen Trapper, and their album Furr.  Almost every song on this album sounds different from the others songs, almost a unique genre for each!  Here is an album of their song “Furr” which Riley has been requesting constantly (“play the song where the boy turns into a wolf!”).

And a much darker song:

What is Reformed Theology. R.C. Sproul.

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I have been digging deeper into various Christine doctrine recently, and have been really drawn to systematic theology as part of that.  In fact, I have been spending more my Systematic Theology book by Wayne Grudem, and listening to a systematic theology class I downloaded off of iTunesU.  For some reason I have been drawn to Reformed Theology, and I have heard great things about R.C. Sproul before, so this looked like a good book.  Turns out it is a good book, but is lacking in a few areas.

First, what I have heard about Sproul is true — he is a great writer.  He can really explain very complex issues in an easy to understand way, in a relatively short amount of space.  Second, the book is great at explaining concepts using comparisons to other Theologies, such as Roman (Catholic), Arminianism, etc.  This was especially helpful to me, as I am still learning about each of these and still need help separating them from one another.

But when I finished, I found it lacking in a few key areas (though I still would highly recommend it to anyone that is interested in exploring theology deeper and is not very familiar with the Reformed view).

One issue I found is that some key words and concepts are never explained.  I would expect an “Understanding the Basics” book to spend a little more time defining theological terms that a person that is not a student of theology would not know.  Sometimes terms were defined, but often they were not.   Key concepts of Reformed Theology were explained at great lengths and explained very well.  But I found some terms were not defined at all.

Also, while this book covers the key concepts of Reformed Theology very well, it hardly ever mentions key issues that the doctrines arise.  For example, nowhere does he mention how, or why, the Reformed still need to follow the Great Commission in light of the Reformed’s understanding of God’s elect.

Now, I am certainly new to some of these concepts…  The Baptist churches we have been a part of are typically light on the doctrines that tend to separate different denominations of Protestantism.  But I will put forth the MAIN difference between Reformed and others here:  In the Reformed view, the Holy Spirit instigates Faith in Jesus within the Believer, whereas other views tend to hold, for the most part, that the person himself makes the decision to have faith.   And here instigates is probably not the proper word, as I think both Reformed and Evangelical would hold to that.  With Reformed, it is the Spirit that believes — so God is really doing all the work in his elect to bring the person to salvation.  The believer does not make the choice at all.

I certainly see where the Reformed view comes from in light of the Scriptures presented by Sproul in this book and in other resources I have been looking at, but I still need to dig deeper.  In fact, this is a book I will read again in a year or two, after I have had time to read other sources and grow my understanding.

I’d love to hear from anyone in the comments if this main difference I am perceiving is accurate.   (And I do know there are other differences, but it seems to me this is the key difference.)

Two quotes:

The ultimate form of idolatry is humanism, which regards man as the measure of all things.

The disappearance of theology from the life of the Church, and the orchestration of that disappearance by some of its leaders, is hard to miss today but, oddly enough, not easy to prove.  It is hard to miss in the evangelical world — the vacuous worship that is so prevalent, for example, in the shift from God to the self as the central focus of faith, in the psychologized preaching that follows this shift, in the erosion of its  conviction, in the strident pragmatism, in its inability to think incisively about the culture, in its reveling of the irrational.  (Here Sproul is quoting from No Place for Truth by David F. Wells.)

Q4 Workout Goals Final Post.

This post is a bit late, but better late than never.  I won’t continue to bore everyone with my workout goals by quarter, but since I had originally posted the idea and spreadsheet here, I thought I should at least post the final numbers.  As you can see, I did pretty well, though fell quite short on yoga.

I hope to improve that in the current quarter!  My new goals have more push ups, no dips (though I will still do them), more running, squats/lunges, I have separated hiking from other aerobic, and things like that.  I  have also added other more concrete goals like run a 23:30 5k on the treadmill (a far cry from a few years ago when I was consistently in the low 20:00’s, but I am slowly getting better), trail run for 1 hour, etc.

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Slumdog Millionaire. 2008.

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I heard about this movie from a couple people — that it was great — but I really knew very little about it.  Just the high level story of a boy who wins “Who Wants to be a Millionaire” and then the look back into his life about why and how.  But I had no idea beyond that, and I won’t divulge more here.  Let me just say that it was a very good movie, and if you have not heard of it, don’t let that hold you back from going to see it!

I actually didn’t decide to see it until about 9 p.m. while finishing dinner in Old Town VA, and then I had quite a hike plus tram ride to get to the theater for the 9:50 showing.  It finished up around midnight, and I then had a 40 min hike across Alexandria and Old Town to my hotel.  I could have jumped into a hotel and gotten a cab, but that is a pretty safe area, and I love to walk.